Sri Sri Ravishankar says,
So what if somebody recognizes you: “Oh, you are a wonderful person.” So what? In that person’s mind that thought came and went. It is also finished. That mind has gone. Maybe they keep an attraction for you for some days, some months, so what? That also goes it also goes.
Much energy is wasted in trying to charm others. And in wanting to charm – I tell you, the opposite happens.